Being
Gay and Christian
A
Gift to Embrace or a Temptation
to Overcome?
by Regis Nicoll
"We
are committed Christians,
but we're still gay.” (Jeremy
Marks, former president of
Exodus International Europe)
Recently,
three former leaders of Exodus
International issued a public
mea culpa for the harm
they had done to members of
the gay and lesbian community:
"Some
who heard our message were
compelled to try to change
an integral part of themselves,
bringing harm to themselves
and their families. Although
we acted in good faith, we
have since witnessed the isolation,
shame, fear, and loss of faith
that this message creates."
Exodus
International is a Christian-based
ministry that over the past
three decades has helped many
people caught in the grip
of homosexuality. The organization
emphasizes that while sexual
reorientation is difficult,
and by no means guaranteed,
it is possible through
the grace of God. However,
difficulties with defining
and measuring “success” have
made the ministry a target
of gay-affirming groups.
One
of the ex-leaders is Michael
Bussee, who left the organization
in 1979 after falling in love
with a male volunteer. Commenting
on the trio’s apology, Bussee
added, “God's love and forgiveness
does indeed change people.
It changed me. It just didn't
make me straight.”
Noteworthy
is the fact that all three
signatories describe themselves
as “ex-gay survivors” and ”committed Christians.”
If you sense a disconnect
there, the Reverend Mel White
would like to help you align
the dots.
NEW
INSIGHTS
White is a co-founder
of the gay advocacy group Soulforce and author of What the
Bible Says —And
Doesn't Say —About
Homosexuality. “There
are,” he writes, “millions
of gay and lesbian persons
who have accepted their sexual
orientation as a gift from
God and live productive and
deeply spiritual lives.”
Homosexual
orientation is “a gift from
God?” Active gays lead a “deeply
spiritual life?” What about
all those Bible passages condemning
homosexual behavior? Before
you start thumbing through
your Bible, note what White
gives as the final word on
this:
“The
evidence from science and
from the personal experience of gay and lesbian Christians
demands that we at least consider
whether the passages cited
to condemn homosexual behavior
should be reconsidered . .
.”(Emphasis added.)
From
that epistemological peg,
the reverend builds his case,
starting with a list of Old
Testament customs including
slavery and polygamy and prohibitions
against interracial marriage.
Since those offensive practices
have faded to black in the
shadow of the Cross, so too
must censures against homosexuality.
After all, White insists, science and personal experience have informed us that “homosexual
orientation is as natural
as heterosexual orientation.”
Back to that in a moment.
White
then unpacks six scriptural
passages to show how their
homophobic teachings are either
outmoded or misinterpreted.
White’s exegesis of Romans
1 is a parade example.
In
that well-known text, Paul
reveals that God abandoned
the wicked to “shameful lusts”
culminating in “unnatural”
same-sex relations. White
expends some energy explaining
that the people being referenced
were not homosexuals, but
rather heterosexual pagans
who engaged in all sorts of
sex, including same-sex acts,
as a part of their fertility
religion. Thus, this passage
is not about the evils of
homosexuality as it has been
traditionally interpreted;
it is about the consequences
of ungodliness and behavior
that is contrary to our nature.
And
since we now “know” that homosexuality
is natural and that changing
one’s orientation is unnatural,
even dangerous, White’s logic
makes it sinful for gays to
seek a monogamous heterosexual
relationship. And the beat
goes on.
White’s
reasoning is so flawed it’s
hard to know where to begin.
Not only does he obfuscate
the consistent and unambiguous
teachings of Scripture, he
ignores the plain conclusions
from design.
FIT,
FORM, AND FUNCTION
Having worked as engineer
for 30 years, I know something
about design.
A
design begins with a need
or desire to be met. That
leads to functional requirements
which determine the form,
fit and features of the end
product. Once those specifications
are defined and the architecture
drafted, engineering and construction
can proceed.
But
however well a product is
made, its reliability and
service will be less than
optimal if not used in accordance
with its designed specifications.
Take
a car, for instance. Cars
are carefully engineered to
provide owners the benefits
of efficient and reliable
transportation. But to enjoy
those benefits, an owner must
operate his vehicle within
the bounds of its design,
and maintain it according
to the manufacturer’s specifications.
Making my Honda Civic serve
as a farm tractor guarantees
poor performance and shortened
life. The same is true for
human sexuality.
Misusing
our physiology in ways it
doesn’t fit, or for which
it wasn’t designed, is unhealthy
or injurious. This is readily
borne out by the disproportionate
rates of disease and mortality
among homosexuals—not to mention
their increased risks for
substance abuse, mental health
problems, and suicide.
A
NATURALISTIC PERSPECTIVE
From a naturalistic
perspective, homosexuality
may be natural, but it’s a
natural loser. According to
Darwin, the “winners” are
those with “survival value”—life
forms adept at getting their
genes into the next generation.
Whereas heterosexuals are
inherently fertile, homosexuals
are inherently sterile. In
an ecosphere shaped by natural
selection, the fundamental
deficiency of homosexuality
raises the question, “If homosexuality
is 'natural,' how did nature
select it?”
The
only answer for the naturalist
is by way of a mutation that
is intrinsically detrimental
or, at least, unhelpful in
the evolution of the species.
Witness that despite millions
of years of natural selection,
only a few percent of the
population are homosexual.
The
general revelation of nature
is clear: the “form, fit,
and features” of a man and
woman are complementary to
fulfilling a basic function
of life that no single individual,
or same-sex pair, can—reproduction.
It’s a point that special
revelation is clear on as
well.
BIBLICALLY
SPEAKING
In the opening chapter
of Genesis,
God forms two types of creatures—male
and female—born out of his
desire to create and fill
the universe. God could have
given Adam a male “helper.”
Instead, He gave him one whose
design was such that, when
joined with his in perfect
fit, enabled them to accomplish
the first divine command given
to man: “Be fruitful and multiply.”
Because
of their harmonizing architecture,
Adam and Eve were more than
the sum of their parts. For
when they came together, they
became one; but in their oneness,
they produced a third, and
then a fourth. Such is the
mystery of biblical math.
Same-sex
couplings, by contrast, can
never be unitive or multiplicative
because they lack the complementary
features to do so. Consequently,
the biblical reproach of homosexual
sex is not some religious
relic proved false by modern
science; it’s a timeless judgment
against behavior that is contrary
to our God-given design and
purpose.
Jesus
reaffirms the human design
in the Gospel
of Mark: “But at the beginning
of creation God ‘made them
male and female. For this
reason a man will leave his
father and mother and be united
to his wife, and the two will
become one flesh.’ So they
are no longer two, but one.”
This
would have been an opportune
time for Jesus to be inclusive
and expand marriage to other
constellations of relationships
(man-man, woman-woman, groups,
human-nonhuman, etc). Instead,
He expands the reach of the
Law. (Evidently, He didn’t
foresee the revelations of
twentieth century science!)
In
a series of “You have heard
. . . but I tell you,” Jesus
informs his audience that
not only is adultery wrong,
even lustful looks are wrong.
Notice that Jesus does not
limit this teaching to married
people, but to those who entertain
desires for someone other
than their spouse. Since there
is no biblical provision for same-sex
marriage all unrestrained
homosexual desire would also
be, in Jesus’ judgment, sinful.
(But then, Jesus probably
wasn’t aware of modern insights
from “personal experiences”
either.)
Does
that mean that a committed
Christian can’t be gay? That
depends.
BAD
NEWS, GOOD NEWS
Setting aside the cause
of sexual orientation, a homosexual
bent is not, of itself, a
sin. Same-sex attraction is
no different from other desires
that run counter to the created
order—all are products of
the Fall propagated by an
unsettled combination of nature
and nurture.
The
bad news is that the effects
of the Fall are universal,
such that we all have a sinful
bent, whether to anger, violence,
gossip, homosexuality, or
“fill in the blank.” The good
news is that our desires are
just that, and nothing more,
until acted upon; and even
then, they are forgivable
for a repentant sinner. So
the issue is not whether we
have a sinful orientation,
it is what we do with the
orientation we have.
If
I rationalize that my propensity
for anger is “a gift of God”
and excuse my outbursts as
products of my genetic makeup,
I am not living in accordance
with the teachings of Jesus.
The same holds for those who
profess to be Christian while
embracing their homosexuality
as a divine blessing.
The
central message of Jesus’
ministry was the gospel of
the Kingdom. But that gospel
had a condition—a radical
call to repentance. Thus,
the defining marks of a Christian
include a commitment to transformation
followed by a growing (but
not complete) capacity to
overcome temptation.
That’s
a kingdom apart from the gospel
of Soulforce, which says that
the only thing we need to
overcome is guilt. Former
gay activist Michael Glatze
preached that gospel often.
A
DIFFERENT APOLOGY
For 16 years, Michael
Glatze was a gay leader who
edited an award-winning magazine
targeting gay youth and produced
a PBS documentary on gay teen
suicide. His advocacy among
youth made him a media darling
and earned him a National
Role Model Award.
But
in 2005, after speaking at
Harvard, Michael began having
doubts about the gay lifestyle
and its affirming message.
Feeling there was no one he
could turn to for answers,he
turned to God.That led
to a life-changing
discovery about homosexuality—it
is anything but natural. Glatze
explains,
[H]omosexual
sex—and all other lust-based
sex—is never satisfactory:
It's a neurotic process rather
than a natural, normal one
. . . Homosexuality takes
us out of our normal state,
of being perfectly united
in all things, and divides
us . . . [it] allows us to
avoid digging deeper, through
superficiality and lust-inspired
attractions. . . . As a result,
countless miss out on their
truest self, their God-given
Christ-self.
Glatze
goes on to describe his “coming
out” (of the gay lifestyle)
as “the most liberating, beautiful,
and astonishing thing I've
ever experienced in my entire
life.”
Within
days after the troika of “ex-gay
survivors” publicized their
apology, ex-gay Michael Glatze
gave an apology of his own:
If
I could take back some of
the things I said [as
a gay spokesperson], I
would. Now I know that homosexuality
is lust and pornography wrapped
into one. . . . There is nothing
that would give me more pleasure
than to say the Truth about
'homosexuality' and atone
for my sins in that regard
. . . I hope I can share my
story. I feel strongly God
has put me here for a reason.
I
feel sure that He has, Michael!
Regis
Nicoll is a freelance writer
and a Centurion of the Wilberforce
Forum. His "All Things Examined"
column appears on BreakPoint
every other Friday. Serving
as a men’s ministry leader
and worldview teacher in his
community, Regis publishes
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