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The
History of Fathers Day
Well, well, well, it's that
time of year again.
Father's
Day is next Sunday, 3rd September
here in Australia.
We all know that Father's
Day is close because of all
the adverts for tools coming
on our television and filling
our mailbox.
How did it all start?
It
actually started with a woman.
Sonora Louise Smart Dodd,
first conceived the idea of
a Father's Day while listening
to a Mother's Day sermon.
Mother's Day was first celebrated
by the ancient Greeks and
then again in 17th Century
England as Mothering Sunday.
In the USA Anne Jarvis revitalised
the concept during the American
Civil War and it was eventually
officially made a holiday
in the early 1900s.
Sonora Smart Dodd wanted to
honour her father, William
Smart, who was a veteran of
the Civil War, and a very
devoted father. When his wife
died in childbirth with their
sixth child, Mr Smart was
left to raise the newborn
and his other five children
by himself on a rural farm
in Spokane, Washington.
It was only when Mrs Dodd
became an adult that she realised
the strength and selflessness
her father had shown in raising
his children as a single dad.
The first Father's Day was
celebrated on 19 June, 1910
in Spokane, Washington.
In 1924 President Calvin Coolidge
supported the idea of a national
Father's Day.
In 1936 a National Father's
Day Committee was formed.
In 1966 President Lyndon Johnson
signed a presidential proclamation
declaring the third Sunday
of June, Father's Day.
President Nixon followed that
up by making Father's Day
a permanent national holiday.
People
in the USA & UK celebrate
Father's Day! on the third
Sunday of June, while in Australia
it is held on the first Sunday
in September.
The concept of Father's Day
has spread right across the
world to the point where most
countries celebrate this time
to honour and appreciate fathers.
In many cases market forces
have taken over Father's Day
as just another excuse to
sell more socks and undies.
I might point out that many
men appreciate these presents
(how else do they stock up
on such essentials?)
The challenge before us is
to not let the market demean
the true spirit of the day
itself.
Men as fathers make a wonderful
contribution to families.
I once asked a young girl
why she thought fathers were
important. Her simple but
profound answer was one I'll
never forget. "If we didn't
have fathers, mothers couldn't
have babies'.
This brings me to my next
point.
Fathers and mothers, and the
relationship they are able
to enjoy and sustain are the
key to happy families.
Last Wednesday, I had the
privilege of attending a round
table in Sydney on marriage,
hosted by Byron and Francine
Pirola from www.celebratelove.com
There was representation from
Federal Parliament, the media,
Relationships Australia and
the who's who of the marriage/family
movement.
Professor
Bill Doherty and his wife
were major contributors to
this exciting time of discussion.
Almost
everyone agreed that there
is a desperate need to encourage
marriage as a means to encourage
family;
In my contribution I mentioned
the need for more people like
USA's Diane Sollee from www.smartmarriages.com
to stand up and be counted
in the fight to restore honour
to marriage, fatherhood and
motherhood for the families
of Australia..
Perhaps there is a lesson
here for us as men: how important
and valuable is the contribution
made by the women of the world
in supporting us as fathers?
Perhaps
there is a lesson here for
us as men: how important and
valuable is the contribution
made by the women of the world
in supporting us as fathers?
Lovework
Practice
saying, "What a beautiful
pair of socks", or "Just what
I needed, another pair of
undies."
Enjoy Father's Day. It's
your celebration.
Have fun with your family,
make it a special day, (leave
this newsletter on the desktop
for all to read). Don't forget
there wouldn't be any fathers
without mothers.
Yours for more socks
Warwick Marsh
PS
Enquiries are coming in thick
and fast from all over Australia
regarding the 'Good to Great'
Fatherhood Mentoring Course.
Keep them coming!!!
Our goal is to make this course
available on DVD as we train
'Good to Great' facilitators
all over Australia who have
a heart for the restoration
of fatherhood.
We encourage any of our readers
who would like to financially
help other fathers complete
the course. Help us to help
other dads through sponsorship.
We would also greatly appreciate
your financial help to make
the course available on DVD.
We don't have the money to
complete this project, but
we are moving ahead in faith,
believing that the money will
come in as we move forward,
trusting in our heavenly Father's
goodness.
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